The Four Most Comfortable Positions for Intimacy Between Couples

In the interaction between the sexes, passion at first sight is easily ignited, but maintaining this emotion over the long term is much more challenging.

No matter how intense and fervent the initial love is, if both parties do not know how to properly manage and maintain this affection, then this love will slowly alter from its original state, gradually fading away until it disappears due to the trivialities of life and the ruthless passage of time.

However, the key to a lasting and comfortable relationship lies in mastering these 4 postures. As long as they are well managed, both parties can continue comfortably.

Effortless Conversation

In the world of two, being able to converse effortlessly is truly priceless.

It has been said, “In the middle of the night, when you suddenly think of something and call her. If her only response is: ‘What time is it now? I’m very tired, let’s talk tomorrow.’, at that moment, your interest evaporates.”

For spouses, who are the closest companions in life, if they are always unable to empathize, if your thoughts are not understood by her, and her views not agreed upon by you, achieving resonance of souls is difficult—how then can you speak of deep affection and support?

Countless relationships have ended due to communication difficulties or simply having nothing to say. Those who can share the rhythms of life with you are undoubtedly the most delightful beings.

All outpourings receive a response, and all words spark interest in the other. Such marriages, because of this frequency alignment, last.

Being able to converse is not just about verbal sparring but a match of souls. It is a tacit understanding and comprehension that builds up day by day.

It is the result of long-term adjustments, adaptations, and accommodations. Being able to talk is about accepting and understanding each other, deeply exploring and appreciating the other’s world.

With it, even when faced with various challenges of life, spouses can advance together fearlessly.

Willingness to Share Burdens

“Many people seek a partner to weather life’s storms, only to find that most of these storms are brought on by their partner.”

Those who have experienced it know how poignant this statement is.

The trivialities and challenges of life cannot be borne by a single person alone.

Imagine two people getting married, thinking they can share life’s burdens, only to find that all the pressure falls on one person, with the other even righteously shirking responsibility, making you feel justified in your loneliness.

Reluctantly, you learn to be strong on your own, enduring everything silently. You take on all responsibilities and swallow all bitterness.

Once your disappointment accumulates enough, you will choose to leave.

But how can one lack a partner in life? True love is not about momentary passion but about daily companionship and understanding.

When storms arise, they should be faced together, not fled from individually. In marriage, beyond romance and passion, there should be a determination and courage to share burdens. Only with this can two hearts truly draw close, and days become sweeter.

If someone is willing to walk through storms with you, cherish them. In this lengthy journey of life, having someone by your side is truly wonderful.

Mutual Trust

In this vast world, the encounters and acquaintances between people carry a hint of destiny.

As the ancient saying goes, “It takes ten years to travel in the same boat, a hundred to sleep on the same pillow,” behind every profound relationship lies countless years and opportunities.

When two people meet in the boat of life, they may rejoice over their similarities and be moved by their uniqueness. But true companionship relies not just on initial passion and novelty but on both parties’ efforts and maintenance.

Throughout life, couples or partners will inevitably face various tests.

These trials might be external temptations, work pressures, financial troubles, or mundane disagreements. Among these, trust and honesty are crucial.

Consider an experiment about crossing the street blindfolded, guided by one’s partner, with a rich prize for success.

A seemingly simple task has defeated many couples. When blindfolded people hear honking around them, fear arises, and they no longer trust their partner’s guidance.

This distrust leads them to remove the blindfold, ultimately failing to reach the destination.

Trust in marriage is similar. When doubt and suspicion arise between two people, the once solid dam of their relationship begins to crack.

Even though they still share a bed, their hearts have long been estranged, losing that true intimacy.

So, cherish your partner, finding someone to grow with and face life’s challenges together is rare. Only through mutual trust and honesty can this bond truly blossom.

Refusing Ambiguity, Maintaining Boundaries

Henry Cloud, an American marriage columnist, said:

“The best way to judge if you’re crossing the line is to see if your actions hurt your spouse in the marriage.”

For adults, maintaining appropriate boundaries in interactions with the opposite sex is crucial.

Not overstepping boundaries ensures the long-term development of a relationship. In the emotional lives of adults, it’s not just about commitment but also about responsibility.

Managing how you interact with the opposite sex is not only a skill but also a protection for your marriage and family.

Remember when Zhu Yawen refused to lift Wu Xin in the variety show “Happy Camp” for a game, choosing instead to lift another host, He? When asked why he straightforwardly replied that he was married and thus maintained a proper distance from other women.

See, those who understand boundaries always have a “ruler” in their hearts regarding distance.

They choose to reserve all intimacy and passion for the most important person in their lives, rather than being a central air conditioner that spreads warmth everywhere.

With such a person, your little world together is always sweet and cozy. They know how to balance work and family relationships, how to carve out a peaceful space for each other in the hustle of life.

They use words and actions to interpret the true meaning of love, making their partner feel loved and cherished.

Marriage is not just a simple combination of emotions but a contest requiring skills and wisdom.

Learning how to love someone else is undoubtedly a lifelong pursuit.

“Life is short, I only wish to savor this cup of the wine of love with you.”

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